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>> Sunday, 8 May 2011
My Dear Friends,
You would have noticed an unexplained absence from this blog for 3 weeks now. It was due to the sudden passing of a very close relative who died unexpectedly in the wee hours of Good Friday morning. I did not have time to alert you that I won't be around because I had to get on the first available flight to Guyana.
We are all coping the best way we can... Death is often shocking and surprising and more so when someone at the prime of their life, without ailment, walks into a hospital, lies on a bed and is gone in 20 minutes. One is stunned when this happens, you slap and pinch yourself to wake up from the horrible dream because it cannot be real, you spoke to this person a couple of hours ago - you laughed, you made plans for the Easter weekend... but it is clear that God had other plans.
Since my return to Barbados, I have not done any cooking, I've only made a salad and I'm sharing it with you. It's nothing fancy, so there's no recipe really. Just cut some carrots, apples and toss then with a little mayonnaise, honey and grainy mustard. Add a splash of lemon juice if you like.

Have a great week everyone.




38 comments:
Sincere condolences. You need extra strength and support while going thru such emotional upheavals.
Life is surely a mystery.It hits you in face when least expected.I have been thru similar experience.Do continue cooking,it surely will distract you. Take Care.
I'm so sorry for your loss. All my condolences.
Life is a mystery...
Hugs,
Rosa
Heartfelt condolences.
Take care.
So sorry for your sudden loss. Prayers and hugs to you.
Cyn, holding you in the light. xo, D&T
Cynthia, sorry for you loss and my condolences.
Maria
x
HI,
Thanks for sharing this recipe.. Really very interesting blog.. Really like it.. Thanks for posting..
Hi Cynthia...
Accept my condolences and take care.
coming to the blogs will help you a lot...distractions always work.
I'm sorry for your loss, take care x
I am sorry for your loss, i just lost my mom last month suddenly and i know how it feels.
Take care dear cynthia and hugs to you and family.
Life had definitely thrown you an unexpected curve ball Cynthia. I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.All my best wishes for your family.
Sorry for your loss Cynthia. Hugs to you.
I am sorry to hear about your loss Cynthia - my thoughts and prayers are with you...
So sorry to hear of your loss Cynthia.My heartfelt condolences for the family that has lost its dear one...
Your post itself tells me how sad you still are...but I'm sure this will prove to be a helpful distraction.
Take care,
Wit,wok&wisdom
I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care. Hugs.
Dear Cynthia,
The death of a loved one is never easy for the survivors and all the more so when it is so unexpected. My heart goes out to you. I wish I could give you a big hug. Although we never get over the loss, time will make it easier to bear.
Xoxo. Christine
Hi Cynthia, so sorry to hear about your loss.
Oh Cynthia! I'd been hoping you were alright. This all sounds like a nightmare. I'm thinking of you and your family. Take good care.
A xo
My dear Cynthia I really feel your lost, hope with the time you will be better. Death is difficult specially with the persons we love a lot, Big huggs, gloria
i'm sorry honey.
part of life, the hard part
in time the pain will be replaced with the good memories....just takes time.
Big Hugs from SoCal, Cynthia. I'm truly sorry for the loss of your beloved and close relative. I've experienced the shock of sudden loss of my mother and my heart goes out to you.
So sorry to hear about your sudden loss Cynthia.
Big hug to you, take care x
Dearest Cynthia, please accept my condolences for you and your family. May you all find courage and strength to move on as you cherish the memories of your loved one. And as you move forward continue to honor and celebrate those that are still with you. Peace and blessings always.
I come here to give you a bige hug dear Cynthia,xxxx gloria
Sorry for your loss...hugs and take care!
I'm so sorry, Cynthia. It's tough to live away from home and have to rush back for sad occasions. I'm sending lots of big hugs your way.
Cynthia, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I'm sending good thoughts your way.
Sincerest condolences. It is hard to accept like this, but we have to go on either way. Wishing you strength, love and consolation in these difficult times.
so sorry to hear about your loss..i pray that you and your family and holding up as best as you can..
I send you and your family my sympathy, love and a big hugs.
ah, the reaper sure has been making his rounds. sorry to hear. take care of yourself.
Sorry to hear about your loss, Cynthia.
I am so sorry for your loss, Cynthia.
My dear friends, I am comforted by your words, thoughts and prayers. Thank you all very much.
I will be sure to share your comments with the family and I know that they will be touched.
All my love.
Cynthia
Dearest Cynthia
I came by after a long absence of my own, albeit not due to something so painful as this. I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
Sending a warm hug and wishing you comfort.
I myself have been away from blogging due to ill health and so have missed this post. Please accePt my condolences- the shock must have been too hard to bear. Hugs
How devastating for your family. So sorry for your loss, thinking of you cynthia. xx
Take Care of your self Cynthia in the future..
May god bless u & keep you happy forever...
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