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>> Sunday, 8 May 2011

My Dear Friends,


You would have noticed an unexplained absence from this blog for 3 weeks now. It was due to the sudden passing of a very close relative who died unexpectedly in the wee hours of Good Friday morning. I did not have time to alert you that I won't be around because I had to get on the first available flight to Guyana.

We are all coping the best way we can... Death is often shocking and surprising and more so when someone at the prime of their life, without ailment, walks into a hospital, lies on a bed and is gone in 20 minutes. One is stunned when this happens, you slap and pinch yourself to wake up from the horrible dream because it cannot be real, you spoke to this person a couple of hours ago - you laughed, you made plans for the Easter weekend... but it is clear that God had other plans.

Since my return to Barbados, I have not done any cooking, I've only made a salad and I'm sharing it with you. It's nothing fancy, so there's no recipe really. Just cut some carrots, apples and toss then with a little mayonnaise, honey and grainy mustard. Add a splash of lemon juice if you like.




Have a great week everyone.

38 comments:

Curry Leaf May 09, 2011 1:35 AM  

Sincere condolences. You need extra strength and support while going thru such emotional upheavals.
Life is surely a mystery.It hits you in face when least expected.I have been thru similar experience.Do continue cooking,it surely will distract you. Take Care.

Rosa's Yummy Yums May 09, 2011 1:51 AM  

I'm so sorry for your loss. All my condolences.

Life is a mystery...

Hugs,

Rosa

TheCooker May 09, 2011 1:54 AM  

Heartfelt condolences.
Take care.

Melanie May 09, 2011 3:16 AM  

So sorry for your sudden loss. Prayers and hugs to you.

tanita davis May 09, 2011 4:42 AM  

Cyn, holding you in the light. xo, D&T

Maria♥ May 09, 2011 4:57 AM  

Cynthia, sorry for you loss and my condolences.

Maria
x

viagra online May 09, 2011 5:28 AM  

HI,
Thanks for sharing this recipe.. Really very interesting blog.. Really like it.. Thanks for posting..

sangeeta May 09, 2011 5:59 AM  

Hi Cynthia...
Accept my condolences and take care.
coming to the blogs will help you a lot...distractions always work.

At Anna's kitchen table May 09, 2011 6:04 AM  

I'm sorry for your loss, take care x

Happy Cook / Finla May 09, 2011 6:13 AM  

I am sorry for your loss, i just lost my mom last month suddenly and i know how it feels.
Take care dear cynthia and hugs to you and family.

bellini May 09, 2011 8:09 AM  

Life had definitely thrown you an unexpected curve ball Cynthia. I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.All my best wishes for your family.

indosungod May 09, 2011 8:26 AM  

Sorry for your loss Cynthia. Hugs to you.

christo AKA doggybloggy May 09, 2011 9:09 AM  

I am sorry to hear about your loss Cynthia - my thoughts and prayers are with you...

Wit,wok and wisdom May 09, 2011 10:05 AM  

So sorry to hear of your loss Cynthia.My heartfelt condolences for the family that has lost its dear one...
Your post itself tells me how sad you still are...but I'm sure this will prove to be a helpful distraction.

Take care,
Wit,wok&wisdom

Manasi May 09, 2011 10:35 AM  

I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care. Hugs.

Christine May 09, 2011 10:46 AM  

Dear Cynthia,
The death of a loved one is never easy for the survivors and all the more so when it is so unexpected. My heart goes out to you. I wish I could give you a big hug. Although we never get over the loss, time will make it easier to bear.
Xoxo. Christine

Chennette May 09, 2011 3:12 PM  

Hi Cynthia, so sorry to hear about your loss.

Figs, Bay, Wine May 09, 2011 4:11 PM  

Oh Cynthia! I'd been hoping you were alright. This all sounds like a nightmare. I'm thinking of you and your family. Take good care.
A xo

Gloria May 09, 2011 4:44 PM  

My dear Cynthia I really feel your lost, hope with the time you will be better. Death is difficult specially with the persons we love a lot, Big huggs, gloria

vanillasugar May 09, 2011 4:54 PM  

i'm sorry honey.
part of life, the hard part
in time the pain will be replaced with the good memories....just takes time.

zippiknits May 09, 2011 10:16 PM  

Big Hugs from SoCal, Cynthia. I'm truly sorry for the loss of your beloved and close relative. I've experienced the shock of sudden loss of my mother and my heart goes out to you.

Jan May 10, 2011 12:25 AM  

So sorry to hear about your sudden loss Cynthia.
Big hug to you, take care x

Del May 10, 2011 10:43 AM  

Dearest Cynthia, please accept my condolences for you and your family. May you all find courage and strength to move on as you cherish the memories of your loved one. And as you move forward continue to honor and celebrate those that are still with you. Peace and blessings always.

Gloria May 10, 2011 3:37 PM  

I come here to give you a bige hug dear Cynthia,xxxx gloria

pigpigscorner May 11, 2011 5:28 AM  

Sorry for your loss...hugs and take care!

Sue May 11, 2011 3:39 PM  

I'm so sorry, Cynthia. It's tough to live away from home and have to rush back for sad occasions. I'm sending lots of big hugs your way.

Mike May 11, 2011 3:41 PM  

Cynthia, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I'm sending good thoughts your way.

judejam May 12, 2011 9:12 AM  

Sincerest condolences. It is hard to accept like this, but we have to go on either way. Wishing you strength, love and consolation in these difficult times.

Losing in the City May 13, 2011 3:53 PM  

so sorry to hear about your loss..i pray that you and your family and holding up as best as you can..

Susheela,  May 15, 2011 2:40 PM  

I send you and your family my sympathy, love and a big hugs.

Pearl May 15, 2011 8:59 PM  

ah, the reaper sure has been making his rounds. sorry to hear. take care of yourself.

Erica May 15, 2011 9:14 PM  

Sorry to hear about your loss, Cynthia.

elly May 16, 2011 9:59 PM  

I am so sorry for your loss, Cynthia.

Cynthia May 19, 2011 7:36 PM  

My dear friends, I am comforted by your words, thoughts and prayers. Thank you all very much.

I will be sure to share your comments with the family and I know that they will be touched.

All my love.

Cynthia

Linda May 19, 2011 9:53 PM  

Dearest Cynthia

I came by after a long absence of my own, albeit not due to something so painful as this. I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

Sending a warm hug and wishing you comfort.

Miri May 20, 2011 3:07 AM  

I myself have been away from blogging due to ill health and so have missed this post. Please accePt my condolences- the shock must have been too hard to bear. Hugs

Nic May 29, 2011 6:50 AM  

How devastating for your family. So sorry for your loss, thinking of you cynthia. xx

Introacular Lense June 28, 2011 1:01 AM  

Take Care of your self Cynthia in the future..

May god bless u & keep you happy forever...

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